Ultimately we are each responsible for our own success. Luck can sometimes play a part however I’m a firm believer that luck is the result of lots of hard work. Luck never gives, it only lends. 

I think much of what we accomplish depends on who roots for our success in our voyage toward the goal. Do you surround yourself with those who have confidence in your abilities or who denigrate you in small ways? Are the people in your life enthusiastic about your growing ability or do they compare you unfairly to those who have already met with great success? 

Success is measured in various ways. For me, to progress along my path in small steps with deliberate forward movement is success. In that expedition towards excellence I am the driving force. But are those around me doing their best to encourage me or are they intentionally setting up roadblocks along the way?

Two years ago I decided to change my life, both personally and professionally. It wasn’t easy and it wasn’t the path of least resistance. If anything it seemed as if I met resistance with every forward stride. I questioned my decision. At times I questioned my sanity. But one by one I eliminated the barriers that people had put in my way. Sometimes those obstructions were the very people I had invited into my life. They were so difficult I had to analyze each and every statement or deed to find the hidden meaning in their motive. It was exhausting.

To be straightforward is a blessing. To have those around you do the same is even better. If you have a clear vision for the direction your life is headed surround yourself with those who can also visualize the outcome toward which you work. Hold yourself to a high standard of excellence and accept the criticism given you by those who know. But be discerning between those who have a high standard of excellence vs. those who hold themselves aloft as being the standard bearer toward which all must strive. Eventually we all learn our way around the gatekeepers.

2010 isn’t about stepping out of the box. I did that in 2009. 2010 is all about leaving boxes behind. There are new ways to accomplish the goal, new standards and new ways of doing things. I intend to be on the leading edge of what will convey me more rapidly toward my future without compromising excellence along the way.

"Your greatness is measured by your kindness; your education and intellect by your modesty; your ignorance is betrayed by your suspicions and prejudices, and your real caliber is measured by the consideration and tolerance you have for others." ~ William J.H. Boetcker